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Wedding first looks have become increasingly popular through the years. However, couples can have a hard time deciding if doing one is the right decision for them. Today I’m breaking down the pros and cons of a first look to help guide you to the decision that’s best for you! Pro: It’s a great opportunity […]
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Your wedding details tell more of the story of your wedding day. Because of that, from flat lays to reception details, your photographer loves snapping these shots! To help make it go more smoothly and make sure no detail is missed, we’ve come up with a list of items you should have readily available for […]
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Your wedding invitations set the tone for your wedding day. Although you may send out save the dates, your invitations are often the first thing guests receive that give them an idea about your day. Not only are your invitations essential, but so is all of your wedding stationery. These include your table numbers, escort […]
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Daffodil Hill is a beautiful hidden garden tucked away in Bethany, Oklahoma, and it made for the most stunning backdrop for this winter-spring wedding inspiration, which was designed by Harper Mae Events and beautifully captured by Meg Rose Photography. I love a dreamy wedding inspiration shoot – filled with thoughtful details, stunning florals, a beautiful […]
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They say a picture is worth a thousand words so a bride should invest in a great wedding photographer. There’s no secret that this should be one of your biggest investments as they last a lifetime! Below, I’m sharing some input with you on all things wedding photography! I’m certainly no photographer, any and all […]
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Today, I’m sharing what I’ve been working on since mid-November and something I’m very passionate about… my third styled shoot…which happens to be today! Styled shoots give me the luxury of networking and forming relationships with vendors across Oklahoma as well as the opportunity to make beautiful ideas come to life! This styled shoot is […]
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Are gorgeous flowers your favorite part about weddings too? I love beautiful blooms like peonies, garden roses, and ranunculus in bridal bouquets, table centerpieces, and ceremony arbors. However, florals can add up very quickly if you’re not careful and it’s imperative that you budget for them wisely. Below, I’m sharing the five floral-related items you […]
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Happy New Year! I’m thrilled 2020 is over… It was a hard year for many of us but a year we can be grateful for in many ways. For me, I graduated from Oklahoma State University with my B.S. in Business, I launched Harper Mae Events on April 1, and like everyone else, had lots […]
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Bailey & Tristen’s wedding at Still Meadows was such a stunning fall day, and a beautiful start to their wonderful marriage! You might have seen this couple featured across my Instagram a few times. Full of fall-hued candles, beautiful florals, an amazing couple, and the cutest flower girl ever, you’re going to want to see […]
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One of the most common questions is “How Much Should I Tip My Wedding Vendors?” It can be awkward to ask each vendor what they’re usually tipped, which is why I wanted to break it down for you in this wedding gratuity guide. As a wedding planner, I’ve gotten a good feel for what’s standard […]
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I'm happiest at home with a cup of English breakfast hot tea (heavy on the cream & sugar), scrolling through Pinterest AND Instagram, Gilmore Girls playing in the background, and bringing creative ideas to life.
Hi, I'm Harper and it's a pleasure to meet you! I am an Oklahoma City-based wedding planner & coordinator and I find great joy in the tradition and personal style of my brides special day. When I'm not coordinating weddings, you can find me sourcing new tea shops, dancing to Taylor Swift, and dreaming up travels to Charleston and Newport.